Buying your first home is a big deal, but with prices going through the roof it’s getting harder.

That’s where the Bank of Mum and Dad comes in – parents lending their kids some cash to get into the market and maybe even get out of the family home!

While it’s a nice gesture, it’s not always simple.

Let’s get into the pros and cons of using the Bank of Mum and Dad to buy your first home.

Pros

  1. Bigger Deposit

The biggest advantage is a bigger deposit which can increase your borrowing power and get you better mortgage deals.

  1. Avoid Lenders Mortgage Insurance (LMI)

A bigger deposit might help you avoid or reduce LMI costs and save you money over the life of the loan.

  1. Faster Homeownership

The Bank of Mum and Dad can get you into the market sooner than you could on your own.

Cons

  1. Complicated Loan Approval

Taking money from parents can make the loan approval process more complicated. Lenders may need proof that the money isn’t repayable. If it is, they may require a loan agreement to see if you can service both loans. Another option is for parents to provide additional security by acting as guarantors, but not all lenders offer this.

  1. Relationship Strain

Money can ruin relationships, especially if there’s no clear agreement or if circumstances change.

  1. Financial Risk for Parents

Parents may put their own financial security at risk if they lend more than they can afford or need the funds later.

  1. Sibling Inequality

Helping one child financially can create disputes or expectations from other siblings for similar support.

  1. Age Pension Implications

When parents give or lend money, it can affect their age pension entitlements. A genuine loan is an asset for the parents, even if interest-free. If it’s a gift it can impact income and assets tests for 5 years from the date of the gift.

The Bank of Mum and Dad can be a godsend for first-home buyers, but you should be careful. Both parties should get legal and financial advice to protect themselves.

Ultimately, it’s a decision that should be made with your eyes open to the pros and cons.

Based on an article written by Peter Kelly for his publication ‘Realise Your Dreams.”